Friday, January 25, 2013

Do You Ever Receive Out of Turn Advice?

This is the third installment on the topic of self-limiting beliefs I prefer to call strongholds.  

In the spiritual sense, the enemy Satan can be the author of such thoughts.  I say "can be" because we have free will and live in a culture that also influences us to think wrongly for ourselves.  

Still, the Devil is behind a lot of wrong thinking habits so easily adopted.  He sends his demonic workers to whisper discouraging words and lies into the ears of believers and nonbelievers alike.  


Satan is clever in disguising his activities so that someone else gets the blame.  Sometimes we shift the blame to ourselves.  He tricks us into using "I" statements, such as "I'm good for nothing." Why?  So that we become confused as to the truth of the statement--after all, shouldn't we believe what our own minds tell us?

Lying words and concepts become strongholds when or if we believe them.  They hinder us when they become obsessive or oppressive.  We might be under the power of a stronghold and not even realize it.  

Peter was under the influence of the Liar in Matthew 16. Jesus had begun to explain to his disciples he would be returning to Jerusalem where he would suffer and die.  But Peter protested. One version of the Bible says Peter rebuked Jesus insisting it would never happen.  

I could see myself saying something similar to what Peter did, out of a desire to be encouraging.  But Jesus was not impressed.  Instead he said,  "Get behind me Satan. You are a stumbling block to me; you do not have in mind the concerns of God, but merely human concerns.”

Pay very close attention here. Peter was one of Jesus "followers".  Yes, the enemy can use other believers to deliver wrong messages to us.   

I've been at the receiving end of such wrong messages, have you?  A few times have been as a result of a person skipping the step of getting to know enough about me to see life from my perspective before giving criticism.  

We often received out of turn advice from other people's perspectives, just as Jesus received out of turn advice from Peter's, or as he puts it, a "human" perspective.  

Advice given from these other perspectives might clearly be wrong, no matter how professional or learned the person is.

When I've received advice I have questions about, I've felt anger.  I tend to resent misguided advice I that is off base for me.  

Jesus knew Peter's advice was wrong for him.  Perhaps Jesus got angry because He didn't appreciate such deep matters being balked at.  I don't think Peter gave Jesus the response He craved.  Perhaps he wanted compassion or, at least, acknowledgement of what He was explaining.        

We might believe that it was the Devil that inspired Peter's response to Jesus because Jesus didn't attack Peter, he attacked the source of Peter's words--Satan.  The Message version of the Bible suggests Jesus told the enemy to "Get lost."

Before we return to decipher the list of strongholds, let's be clear.  When we hear thoughts that are not empowering, we must attack the author--Satan.  Tell him to get lost!

If there is someone in your life continuously feeding you misguided advice, don't let them become a stronghold in your life!

Tuesday, January 08, 2013

Planning for 2013


As a Christian woman, it is always important to thank God for his past guidance and to ask him for new direction for the new year.  Our own plans might sound wonderful, but won't bear the right fruit if they aren't aligned with God's, so gaining alignment early in the year is important.. 

As you tidy up the details of last year and look forward to 2013, pray over these questions and use them as prompts:

  1. What did you add to your life last year that you felt was God-led?
  2. Where/how have you grown?
  3. What life lessons have you learned that you want to take with you into the future?  
  4. What are 5 key top decisions you made last year?
  5. What tripped you up, if anything?
  6. Name a few things about 2012 that were really good for you.
  7. If you could have a do-over of anything, what would it be?


  1. What are the 3 to 5 main things God wants you to focus on right now--that probably means what will you spend most days doing?
  2. How do you feel inside?  How is your spirit?  How is you mood?  Are there any lies you are believing that you need to deal with?
  3. What do you wish could change?


  1. What projects do you want to complete this year?
  2. Who do you want to spend more time with?
  3. What do you want to be more on top of?
  4. Have you had any sneak peaks into new things that you will want to explore?  If so, what?
  5. What are the things you definitely want included in the next few months in order to propel you to meet the deepest desires of your heart?
  6. What specific goals will you set?
  7. Where do you hope you'll be mentally, physically, emotionally, etc. this time next year?

Tuesday, January 01, 2013

New Year - Fresh Start

Since the inception of this blog 6 years ago, I've pretty much used the ditch & dash method.  That is, because I love to write what's on my mind, I've done it quickly and then published it.  I haven't wanted to spend much time re-reading and editing my posts.  But looking back, I'm deplored.  I can see my work has made sense to me, but improvement is needed.  So I've taken down a lot of the posts and will revise many of them or start fresh ones.